Some memories are very elusive, and they may just present themselves. Even a sound, a smell or a mere object may at times recall a feeling that is difficult to articulate. These experiences are associated by many with a more hands-on and slower life when people were not as overwhelmed by screens and constant news. Being raised in the shadow of the 60s usually implied common areas, bare-bones routines, and ingenious methods of keeping oneself occupied. These reminiscences are not dramatic, though they are sweetly remembered. It may be a silent behavior in case there are still some ordinary objects that can arouse the same feeling of one epoch that formed the childhood
Watching a tv show at a fixed time
Television has needed to be planned. Missing an episode also implied having to wait to see the episode again. Even the excitement around a fixed schedule can be a familiar and comfortable one.
Making a rotary phone call
It was time-consuming and concentrated on dialing. The ticking and the motion of the dial may remain gratifying. It reminds me of a period when I found the process of communicating more deliberate and slower.
Playing outside till late
The nighttime was frequently terminated by the appearance of the streetlights. That mere indicator was one that was trusted and was free. It can still remind me of the days of careless play and summer days.
Writing notes by hand
Daily messages were formerly delivered by way of handwritten notes. It was important how the paper and ink felt. This practice still can be intimate, as digital communications can be at times.
Listening to music in a group
Music was commonly played in residential rooms or family rooms. Care was taken to play songs repeatedly. Listening together may seem to be as significant as the music itself.
Checking directions with maps
Locating an arrival involved opening a map and listening. This event promoted awareness of the environment. This memory can still cling and is weirdly gratifying.
Family news viewing ritual
In the evening news was often viewed collectively. It was a collective experience of consciousness. This practice can also keep them close and bound to togetherness.
Playing board games
Game nights were based on attention and discussion. No messages distracting attention were there. The recollection of innocent fun might still be fresh and natural.
Fixing things rather than throwing them away
Repairing items was common. Shattered items were not promptly disposed of. This attitude can have an effect on the modern perception of value and care.
Attending the local library
Libraries were silent retreats and informative places. Shopping was relaxing. The feeling of the discovery might remain a unique experience in memory.
Wearing hand-me-down clothes
Other people always had stories about clothes. It was practical to wear them, and it was normal. This experience can be an indication of a period where functionality was valued over fashion.
Acquiring the art of being patient
Patience was a normal experience. Letters took time. Responses were not instant. Such a slow rhythm can still be familiar and strange at the same time, soothing.
Being in touch without constant connection
Connection used to be based on presence as opposed to constant connection. Relationships were developed in the times of mutual experiences. Such a mode of association might continue to be significant and unspokenly missed.
